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writes:i am 22 year old, and i've been with my girl friend for the last two years, and lately maybe i didn't notice before but every night she is dreaming about some different guy she having sex with, when ever i ask she tell me, but if i don't she leave it alone, just wanted to know is that normal or should i worry?. for instance one night after we had sex and was laying cuddling in bed she was dreaming of another guy calling his name while next to me should i worry or am i taking those dream to personal, just let me know! Reply to this Question
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Well, that's a new one to me. Especially how it's happening on a regular basis.
U sure she's not just pretending to make you paranoid and give you a reason to spit up?
The best thing to do is talk to her about it and find out what she's dreaming about. If she is honest with you it may be nothing.
I don't really know too much about psychology but there could be an underlying reason as to why this is happening. Maybe she is frustrated about something or has something on her mind she hasn't told you about.
Maybe she just has an overactive imagination. Either way, talk about it and if it's bothering her too she can speak to a professional.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): Dreams are just the organization of one's brain. They mean nothing. Chill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): Does your girlfriend call out the SAME name? or different guy names each time?
Girls do dream a lot of things, I'm sure she loves you a lot. us woman can't control who we dream about.
Like me - I apparently trash and make a weird loud noise when I'm asleep, I have no recollection of it, apart from a nightmare sometimes when it happens.
Confront your girlfriend like "babe, something's been on my mind" if she asks, explain about the calling other guys names out when she's sleeping, ask her why she thinks she does it if she response with "I dont know"
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Fantasizing about a guy and actually sleeping with the guy are two different things. But what about when it comes to dreaming? It's only happening when she's dreaming. She can't do anything about that!
There are other, possibly more definitive clues whether or not someone is cheating, if that's what you're worried about. Look for other signs if you're worried.
On a side note, the science nerdy side is coming out of me, she's got a pretty active limbic system. She must be in REM sleep, that's when most dreams occur. REM is a good thing, it means she's getting good sleep!
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