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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Lately I have been feeling like my bf isn't really that into me anymore. We have been dating for almost 3 years now and we also live together and I guess were both just in our "comfortable stage". I feel like I'm starting to become more of his roommate then girlfriend. He used to greet me at the door when I would come home from work or text me while I was away at work for the day. He never does this anymore, never wants to see how my day is going or if I text him he usually doesn't reply for atleast a few hours. When I come home from work he is just sitting downstairs glued to his video game. I feel like every time I leave the house he is secretly excited because he will be able play his video games and not have to worry about me wanting to spend time with him. Its like he is more in love with his video game then me.Also he always masturbates all of the time and I know that normal for everyone to do and I dont care that he does it but it just makes me feel like Im not good enough for him and he has to watch porn to satisfy himeself. We have sex like 3 or 4 times a week. But if he wants some or is horny why doesnt he just ask me instead of looking up porn on the internet. He will go downstairs and play his games until like 4 or 5 in the morning so I have to go to bed alone without him. And then I caught him watching porn downstairs when he said he was going to play his video Game.When we frist started dating it seemed like he was more into me that I was into him but lately it seems the other way around and I feel like im obsessing over him and he doesnt seem to really care about me. Im starting to think this isnt working out anymore. I wish we were the same way as when we started dating(exciting and fun)Im just worried and dont know what to do..any advice?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (9 February 2012):
 First is not to take it personally. I bet you are not really into a guy who's addicted to the computer. If at first you knew he was like that you wouldn't have dated him. You are into finding out what changed, you are into seeking the love you lost. At the beginning everything was fresh and exciting. The dating game does not end once you are with each other. You have to equally create new activities that draw you together. You can suggest something to do with other friends, if there are guys let him hear that. You can also state what you want in a relationship and he does not have to be that person if he doesn't want to. What you want in a guy is someone who would not escape into oblivion once a relationship gets comfortable, who doesn't know what to do once it's solid. You need a guy who is more creative that the one you are with now.
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