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writes:Well the basics of my problem is that there is this girl that I have sat next to in one of my classes all year and we talk all the time but only in that class and earlier this year I was 100% positive she liked me a lot but for some reason I didn't really care that much but now I really like her and I am pretty sure shes over me but I want her bad right now. We talk all the time in class but I've never asked her for her number or anything. For some reason I feel like I should just spontaneously ask her out. Any suggestions on what to do or how to ask her out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): consider this... maybe you only want her now because you thing she is over you?! Perhaps you just crave the challenge of trying to get a girls interests but once you have it, you lose interest. It's a pattern of behaviour to just be aware of
Consider both end results: How would you feel if she got a boyfriend and completely lost interest forever? Or If she was only interested in you, would you get bored with that. If so let her be. If you are fully sure you want this girl not just for a couple of weeks then definitely do pursue her.
Good luck.x
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 Your feeling is spot on so go for it..it doesn't even matter if you stumble with your words while asking her out,be your natural self and ask her out..love is not rocket science..so put your mind at rest and follow your heart...all the best
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reader, LostLoveGirl16 +, writes (9 February 2012):
 I would say go for it if you can.
You should try asking her if she still has an interest or if she ever had any interest to begin with. If so, ask her out! Pursue the relationship. If not, move on. That's easier said than done, but it's something that cannot be avoided. If the person doesn't like you, as hard as it may be, you must move on.
P.S. If she did like you at one point, there may be something there. Don't push it though... People need their space. If that's the case then take it slowly: the feelings may come back!
Hope this helped. :)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 Are you sure she was interested in you? Are you sure she isn't interested now? Just ask her out and see what happens.
I hope that helps.
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