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anonymous
writes:my ex left 2 month ago. he said he loved me and that would never change. he has not been in contact for 5 weeks now, no phone call or text message. why does he do this if he says he loves me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): hey,have been through the same situation,he's not contacting you means he wants to break up,but would rather that you do it yourself.i did because i realised that he doesnot deserve me and its definately his loss.so let him go.it wasnot easy for me because we ladies tend to blame all that goes wrong on ourselves and men that are disrespectful turn their faults around on us.i say stop the contacting and live your life.he is a jerk who doesnot deserve you.if you are meant to be,he will come back to you but dont dwell on it so much because he may not.and even if he does,who knows,you may not consider getting back because you have someone better.good luck,he is not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): I think the likeliest reason has been stated by thinkb4. He is not playing games, he does want to move on. If he was playing games, then he would find reasons to contact you. No contact at all means he is very serious about breaking up. As hard as it is you would be better trying your best to get over him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 February 2012):
I'm afraid whatever you had is over. As the others have said, words are cheap, and he is an ex. He left, and I'm afraid you'll have to move on or risk getting hung up on a man who doesn't deserve it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwas with this man 4 year. he was under alot of pressure. maybe he is sorting his head out as he said. only time will tell. may hear from him 1 day
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): Words are cheap, his actions are pretty clear.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 This is how the world runs dear..we say a lot of things but being in a relationship means much more than saying something in words..its a hard fact...being in a relationship and continuing it is not everyone's cup of tea...i really hope that he comes back to you but at the same time if he doesn't ,there is some one better and more committed in store for you...life is always up with surprises,so try and be happy...you deserve someone better
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 if he loves you why is he an ex?
I love my ex husband but I'm not in love with him and I don't want contact with him...
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reader, kristina kumar  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 Hi,
This is what men do they keep u hanging on until u break!! I broke up with my boyfriend in October we didn't talk for at least 3months then he called me and asked to meet!! Whatever u do,don't call him this will make it worse and hel ignore u for longer,
Hes probably playing games with your mind to see how mch u really love him
Hel come back trust me, they ALWAYS do
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (9 February 2012):
Because he wants to move on and contacting you would only set him (and you) back.
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