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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy i am dating sent me a message today saying " I will feel the same about you no matter how long it takes until we are together again. All my love ". We wrote to each other earlier in the week, saying that we loved each other and missed each other, even though we saw each other last week. He also told me earlier this week that he has been awarded some backpay. Do you think he wants to wait until he gets some more money before he sees me again, or is he trying to say that it's up to me when i see him again ?. I know that i can't keep paying for him if we go out, and i don't want to go to his house yet. I have only paid for him once when we have been out, by the way. How should i respond to this message ?. I could suggest that we go for a coffee sometime or go for a walk, but should i say anything else ?. I want him to know that i feel the same about him too and that i will no matter how long it takes until we see each other again, but i also want to mention that we can see each other soon if he wants to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): I don't think it makes any sense to be honest - not just out of the blue, you don't give enough detail
Are you in a long distance relationship?
Why would you wait to see each other again?
How long have you been dating?
Why don't you want to go to his house yet ?
If it IS a new relationship its a bit full-on declaring how you love and miss each other when you don't feel secure enough to go to his home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): It is a very nice idea to invite him to meet for a walk on a nice day or a coffee. It is respectful if he is waiting because he is strained financially. You have to figure out how you feel about that. If you can wait through that and start a relationship you can make meals together, rent movies (libray=free), go for walks, do so dynamic dialogue. You also need to figure out how you feel about being in a relationship with a man who is having financial issues. If you really care for him then this could be a genuine time to get to know each other. The first step will be a baby step--find a day that you can share a walk and gently ease into the issues. Good luck.
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