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writes:Okay so my birthday was today and my my crush didn't say happy birthdaydidn't text call or anything. He and I have been talking for over a long time. He knew it was today because he even suggested to take me bowl but I am sad because my day ended and didn't hear from him. What do you guys suggest I do should I text him and ask if he is still down to go bowling or just not go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all he texted me apologizing because he worked. But said he's making it up.:)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 February 2012):
 Happy Birthday...
He's YOUR crush you are NOT his... his knowing it was your birthday and not saying anything may or may not mean much but to YOU it means the world. It sadly says where you fit in his life to him... NOT important...
You could remind him he suggested you two go bowling but then you would always wonder if he did it because he wanted to or because you asked him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): Hey, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, many happy returns :)
Sorry your crush didn't contact you, did he perhaps forget or are the feelings not mutual (meaning, YOU have a crush but perhaps he isn't that into you?) Either way, remember, some guys don't recall dates very well, so a little reminder may help.
If in previous conversations he suggested he would take you bowling, and you haven't heard from him yet, I don't see anything wrong with you contacting him and saying now that you are officially [insert age] is he still keen to go bowling and celebrate it? This will then remind him it is your birthday and he can wish you, and then either still go, or if he only said it and didn't mean it, he will make his excuses and you will know. If however he has an excuse (as he may have forgotten) but he re-schedules for another day, then give it a chance and see.
He may be shy, inexperienced, etc. at that age, because an older guy would make his intentions clearer.
Hope the rest of your birthday goes well, and that he will make your day :)
Best Wishes
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