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writes:I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away like she didn't want to make eye contact with me. She had that type of look on her face like I was ugly and she doesn't want me looking at her. I'm not ugly though, but I do have very low self confidence. Idk maybe I'm just being paranoidShe is one of those stubborn mexican looking girls. She didn't look irritated when she was looking at me though, only when I looked at her and she looked away. I'm half mexican and half white, 18 yr old, senior. I've never talked to this girl before btw
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 December 2012):
 Yes, I think you're being quite paranoid.
It could be anything. She could be in a bad mood. She could be drifting off and thinking of something that irritates her. Sometimes I catch my face making expressions, reacting to whatever I'm thinking about. She could have just been walking down the hall, letting her eyes wander, made awkward eye contact with you and then thought she looked like a weirdo, so she looked away and decided to make a face suggesting, "I wasn't looking at you, I'm was staring into the universe and you got caught in the crossfire, oh god this is awkward".
I severely suspect that she did not have a look on her face saying, "you are ugly, don't talk to me". If you have a thing for her, why not say hi?
Don't worry about it so much! You're fine!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 I think you are being totally paranoid.
Lots of people have trouble making eye contact , particularly with strangers. Maybe she is just shy. Maybe she was embarassed at having been caught looking at you. ...Maybe you did not even realize it, but your stare was a bit too invasive, too " hungry "- it said too clearly Oh yummy, I'd like a piece of that. Maybe guys had been checking her out all day and she started being tired of it :).
You are reading volumes into a glance, or a frown, which may have meant a dozen things other than what you think.
Next time you see her, do not stare it straight in her eyes, from a stranger it may be too close for comfort , even in a perfectly safe ebvironment, and accompany your look with friendly smile ( not a smug grin :) - it will be more friendly and less intense, and she 'll probably react better.
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reader, orangeswild123 +, writes (5 December 2012):
 Some girls are like that haha or maybe she was just in a bad mood. Hard to really tell. Don't let it bother you, no different than when a sales clerk is a little rude to you. You're confused but you just shrug it off as they were having a bad day. No worries :)
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reader, Faith Lafrance  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 i think shes into u but dosent want to show it.... try to talk to her maybe it might work or try clinging arms.... it worked when i tryed it my crush smiled and clinged back so try but if she dosent shes nervous ;) but giv-er a try.
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