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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was seeing this girl for 3 months and we fell in love really quickly. For some stupid reason I started suspecting that she was seeing someone else at the same time so I cut all contact with her for 3 weeks because I was afraid of getting hurt. This happened just after she told me she loves me. That broke her heart and she hasn't said a word to me in 2 months, even though I've been trying to make things right. Let's just say that I know for a fact that she doesn't want me to disappear from her life completely. She checks up on my facebook every day but avoids me at every chance she gets. She is a very sensitive girl who lost all her trust in me due to being so deeply hurt. Is this space that she needs just a way for her to get over me in an easier way or is there still hope? She doesn't tell me if she wants a break or no contact. She has practically said nothing at all for 2 months. I've been contacting her at least once a week trying to make amends for what happened. Should I wait longer until contacting her again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): if you really care for her you need to be patient and explain to her what happened. in my opinion, it really doesn't matter if she will take you back or not. What matters the most is that you two can talk, clarify things and choose whether to start all over or end things.
You need to contact her again. just be patient.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 Well have you explained to her exactly why you done what you did? A lack off communication can cause all types of confusion. You hurt her and she probably does not want to put herself in that situation again. I don't understand how you know she has been checking your facebook every single day however if that is true it still does not mean there is a chance. I think if she is still not replying then you need to give her some space.
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