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female
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writes:I'm a lesbian and got out of a 4 month relationship recently. I know its not a long time in the overall scheme of things but I liked this girl for ages and never acted on it because I (and everyone around her) thought she was straight. We were in the same group of friends and gradually grew closer and started dating: it was one of the happiest days of my life! I never in a millions year thought that it would ever happen! Anyways, after 4 months she started becoming more emotionally distant and ended up breaking it off with me. She said she wasnt ready for a serious relationship, and with me travelling around a lot next year she had already put an expiration date on the relationship (we sucked at long distance). She said she was still attracted to me and wanted to be close etc, as long as I was comfortable with it.Its been nearly 3 months since we broke up and I just cant shake off the feeling of wanting to be with her. I truly think we didnt have our proper shot, and even she admitted that and that did not rule out a relationship in the future. I can't accept that Im not meant to be with her, as I have never had such an emotional connection with anyone like this, let alone anyone I have dated. I have been in relationships before but have never felt like this. Is it reasonable to think that there might one day be a reconciliation in the future?
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reader, orangeswild123  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 It's possible something could transpire someways down the line. It's best to not dwell on hoping it will happen. If it does, then it does. If you want it to happen sooner than destiny then get in contact and tell her whats on your mind. Then you'll know where she stands and you can move on if the feeling are no longer mutual :)
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