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writes: Last winter I had a bad encounter with a club manager who almost raped me, I never called the police or anything because after all I WASN'T raped. I met him through a mutual work group, who is now out of business. He hires underaged girls to work at his club in exchange for sexual favors. I pretty much pushed this out of my head until now. I got a job downtown that I love, I've worked there for 4 months now. I was out getting lunch and decided to get something different than usual and then I stumbled upon his club with his convienantly a block and a half away from my job, seeing this brought lots of trauma to me and now I really feel like I have to do something about it, I don't know what to do, it's too late to go to authorities but I don't want this to happen to other girls. I barely escaped myself. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (5 December 2012):
Go to the authorities. If he uses underaged girls that presumably is illegal. Even if you don’t want to take what happened to you further or there is now insufficient evidence to make a case against him, you could still report what you experienced and any other information you have about this man’s activities. It’s then down to them to investigate him and take any actions they consider appropriate. Don’t just suffer in silence or hope that the next girl won’t be less fortunate than you.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2012):
If you think he's still using under aged girls then by all means I would report it...
I'm not sure who would handle it but to protect others it would be a good idea.
the problem is he's probably already been reported and gotten around it or knows how to avoid detection....
so if you do report it be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2012): Hmmm... it may not be too late to do anything about this. Do you know anyone (females) who currently still work at his club?
This behaviour has likely happened to others too if he's done it to you (and possibly on a more serious scale), but he relies on women/girls to keep their mouths shut about it so he never gets punished for his sick actions. However, if you can get other women this has/may have happened to, to open their mouths about their experiences (including yourself), you may just have enough for him to get at least investigated.
The same with the underage girls really, if you know of any girls specifically that are involved in this, they need to be made aware that this club manager is nothing but a dangerous sexual predator, and what is going on here is illegal and punishable by law, and they need to come forward about this too so this creep can get the punishment he deserves.
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