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writes:Off and on Girlfriend of 2yrs. I'm 29 and shes 27. Kinda broke up with me. She says she doesn't know what she wants or If she can handle a relationship. She is going to focus on her two kids for now. She said she feels a disconnect between me and her but its her fault because she recently pulled away. Daughter found about me from ex-husband. i've only met the younger 2 year old boy. I asked what now and she said I don't know. Then she texts want to Come over later. She made me dinner. She sits it out for me to get the food because I haven't met her oldest kid. Takes a raincheck on me coming over. She proceeds to make me dinner the next to 2 nights. But quit responding to some of my texts. But she texts me every day. We have a good text conversation the next day for 6hrs. Just joking and teasing back and forth. She ignores my good morning text the next day but texts me later. She says she feels I should have kids of my own someday with a sad face after. She can't have anymore kids and I love kids but don't have any. I tell her I don't need biological kids to love them. We text for a little big longer. then no response. She precedes to make me dinner the next night and a cake but I still haven't seen her. We text back and for a while. I made her kids cookies and got them a movie. i got her flowers. she texts me pics of her youngest with the movie. she tells me good night and i say good night and tell her ill text her tomorrow and let her know how the cake was. She texts me the next day asking how the cake was. i say it was amazing, etc. and thank you. she says welcome. i text 6 hrs later asking how her day was and nothing. I have her spare Key and she hasn't asked for it either. I probably left out too much info. I'm just confused I have no idea what to think. I love her and want her back totally. Im just confused. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: She texted me back. she was at a christmas party. We texted for a bit then she wished me a goodnight. She texts me back and intiates contact. I know we'll just have to talk.
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reader, orangeswild123 +, writes (5 December 2012):
 I know you care a lot about her, but there are points where there is only so much you can do. It's not emotionally fair to you, to keep pursuing her if she isn't reciprocating. I would sit with her and really have a heart to heart and let her know that this is it, the final discussion on where to go from here. If she decides she needs to focus on family then accept that and move on. When a woman likes a man she will text him or let him know just like how you're doing. By her not responding to you quickly its making me think you're on the back burner right now. So sit with her, get the situation sorted as to if you guys will continue to be together or not. And stick firm to the decision.
Also when someone tells you they're not really wanting a relationship that usually rings true. It's hard to hear, trust me I know the feeling. But it's best to end it if it's not going to grow anymore. :)
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