A
female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What do I do about this guy I really like him:(?I've been single for 2years. My ex boyfriend cheated, lied to me and dumped me. He really broke my heart cause he's the only guy I've felt so strongly for.I lost my self esteem. I use to be so bubbly and flirty but after our break up. I lost all my confidence.Anyway, I joined the gym and I got my figure back. I feel really good about myself now. But I can't seem to find a nice guy.There's this guy at the gym who stares at me all the time and he's really cute but I'm too shy to talk to him.I like him alot! hes constantly on my mind;) I've noticed that he's friendly and talks to everyone but me.I say hello when I see him. We came really close the other day he was staring at my lips and I was looking into his eyes. I got so nervous I smiled, broke the stare and walked off.have you got any tips?;)Please help. Thanks;)x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 It is good to hear you are getting your confidence back and you are beginning to feel good about yourself again. I am unsure what his reasons are for not communicating with you like he does the others, but maybe he just knows them better. However you can begin a conversation with him and take it from there. I understand you are shy so just take baby steps to talk to him. First find an excuse to talk to him. If he works there ask for his advice on some off the machinery or else ask him for some fitness tips or his opinion on things. Then just begin by asking him simple questions about himself to get to know him.
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