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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been texting and phoning this guy 24\7 for over a year now. He has told me loads of times that he likes me, and I have told him that I like him. We have had what I would class as a few non-dates, lunches etc but I have asked him out a few times but he can never make it. Recently we have got sexual not sex, but sexual contact. I am left feeling like he doesn't mind me touching him but he doesn't want to touch me, we have never kissed! My question is, do you think he is just using me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 yes he is using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2012): Yes he is being dishonest by being selfish and seeking you for sexual release but denying you that intimacy.
Stop texting/seeing him ASAP.
Date other and eventually, you'll find true companionship.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 April 2012):
 Yes, he is using you. If you hold back on the "sexy" stuff see what happens.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 April 2012):
 ..No dates ? No kissing ? You touch him and he does not touch you ? ...
YESSS ! he is using you.
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reader, Accarysin  +, writes (8 April 2012):
Expand on what you mean by..sexual contact? If you aren't kissing, I would think there isn't much intimacy involved, Ask him about it. Openness is key! xo
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reader, Great or Good  +, writes (8 April 2012):
 He might be saying he likes you too while he is not sure if ever really he wants to be with you. As you are the one started this matter just try and talk to him about this things, more specially what is bordering you.
It can be possible that he doesn't even see that he is not making you happy.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2012): I think he is not that into you but is keeping you as an option, there for i think he was just seeing if your willing to do things for him. He is playing the game how he wants to play it, which means using you if he can.
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