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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf is circumcised. He is not a huge fan of oral sex and says he finds it more relaxing than sexual. As a result, we don't often engage in it during foreplay because he loses his erection. However, after feeling it was just me being rubbish (although have not had problems with other boys) I asked him about it and he said the only time he's ever come with oral sex is with one of his exes when he was incredibly drunk. Although I asked him this question directly, I kinda didn't like the answer and want to be able to do as well as she did. Should I just give up on this ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2012): I wouldn't worry about it OP, a lot of guys don't really care about oral and it doesn't really do much for them.
Have you tried a combination of using your hand to wank him while blowing him? Oral doesn't just have the be the mouth. A combination of the two might work as it sounds to me like he just doesn't get the friction needed from the mouth alone.
I wouldn't give up on it, keep trying but just don't get too worked up and frustrated.
At least keep trying in different ways if he will allow you to, so you can at least satisfy your pride to be able to say you have.
Next time have him instruct you as to the motion and friction, something tells me it will be a bit too much. You'll probably tire quickly. His ex probably went nuts on him while they were drunk and that's how it worked.
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