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writes:I dont know how to winch or snog as its also called ? i really want to show my love for a person i really love ( ps : with out tongue ) Reply to this Question
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 Like you, I personally like kisses with no tongue but unfortunately that doesn't work for most people. :-(
Most of the posters here are assuming you're female, which I note you're not. You can kiss well even without using tongue. You can vary the intensity of the kiss, change the pressure, going from light brushes to a full-on hard press of your lips against your girlfriend's and if you aren't against teeth as well, you could gently nibble her lips, without hurting her. You could focus on each lip of hers with both your lips, with a gentle sucking in motion. It's hard to write down really, I could show you how it's done. And all the while, make good use of your hands!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (8 April 2012):
 Sorry you is a guy.. I wrote for a lady...
Problem is, if your already limiting you type of kissing, then it's not going to be as you expect. I was talking about kissing for lovers, and you are talking about kissing for your grandmother.
For kissing without tongues which are suitable for mothers, grandmothers and anyone with grey hair, including your dog. Keep lips closed.. press mouth to mouth, 1 second later lift away... Duty is done and sorted. Only problem involved in time, so make it less than one second if possible.
Do not attempt with someone who you feel romantic about because they will feel insulted.. this type of kissing is only suitable for people you cannot marry, and people like bosses or teachers who are in a position of authority and you don't wish to annoy..
Do not attempt it on anyone who you wish to make into a lover. It is much to dry.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (8 April 2012):
I love your question. Most people your age get there information from the media and from porn and they know the movements but miss the most important bits.
Sex, kissing, and all of what is included, isn't about a goal, isn't about impressing somebody or doing what everyone does... that's the lie that they tell you. To be good at kissing or any sexual things, you just got to feel it and enjoy it.
A man has lips, you have lips and they seem so ordinary. But use your tongue to stroke outside them lips.. see if they is fat or thick, see if they is hot or cold, and all of a sudden they is interesting and exiting. Teeth such ordinary things, suddenly are smooth, go up and down, are precious and feel like pearls. The same goes for if you push the tongue inside or keep it out. Everything you do is alright and OK, there are no prizes, you cannot fail. But if you is brave and push your tongue inside, so much more to discover. Will he push your tongue away, will you and him fight tongues like two warriors with swords. Will his tongue be faster and move so quickly everywhere so your tongue can't keep up. Will his mouth be dry and firm, will it be soft and kind, or will it be sloppy and wet like a dog... so much feeling from a simple touch. Are his lips so dry and crackly that you just got to use all your spit, to kiss and caress them until they is puffy and juicy..
If you want to be a good lover, it is important that you are aware of what you are feeling and why. Does his touches and kisses make you wild, so all of a sudden you want to have a little bite and take a little nip, or does his kisses somehow steal your mind, so you can't remember anything, but all you can do is smile.
Kisses can't be wrong.. NEVER!!! As long as you relax, and are only aware of him and you and what you are both doing to give you pleasure.
Kisses can never be wrong....
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 April 2012):
 I think "snog" is slang for french kissing. Which is WITH tongue. Without tongue is called, well, kissing as far as I know.
You press your lips up against their lips. Pucker your lips a bit. Practice on your hand. Give yourself little kisses. It's not difficult.
As for the more "advanced" steps, you open your mouth some. That's about it. But when you open your mouth you're also welcoming tongue, so if you want it without tongue you better keep your mouth closed and not open wide.
Anyway, this is something VERY important when it comes to kissing of any sort: go slow and always follow what the other person is doing! PAY ATTENTION to what they are doing and how they move their lips, how firm they press against you, if they open their mouths or not, and follow suit.
Oh and always kiss your lips on their lips. Do not start licking their nose or cheek or chin. This makes me come back to the PAY ATTENTION part. If your partner isn't doing it then neither should you. If they keep their lips closed then do not open wide.... Follow suit and keep your lips closed as well.
If someone kisses you in a way you do not like or do not want, simply pull your head back a bit. When a person pulls back it means "give me a break". If they lean back in it means "continue to kiss me".
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