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anonymous
writes:Hi ive known a girl for a few months now but we've only had one "date"--she was with someone at the time we met--and i havent seen her for a couple of months since. She has recently had a hard time becuase this guy she was with has cheated on her. I didnt know this until last night when i saw her again at a party. We had a great time at this party, it was like when we first met we danced all night, bought each other drinks etc and just had loads of fun really. When the night was over i walked her home and went to kiss her when we were at her door. But she only allowed me a quick kiss on the cheek, she was really reluctant and hurried right inside without saying much more than goodbye. Now i dont get why she was like that. Is she playing hard to get? Like i say we were glued to each other for the whole night--mostly dancing, we didnt talk huge amounts but her body language made me think she was interested. Or is she just worried about this boyfriend who cheated on her? She told me she didnt know what to do about him, and im not sure if the relationship is officially over. I really like her though and want to see her again. I have spoken to her by text but there wasnt any mention of the kiss it was just how are you feeling and stuff. Thanks :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 she just broke up with him she may not be ready to have a new relationship...
you may actually want to ASK her where you stand with her...
let her know how you feel... it's a risk but at least you will know.
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 April 2012):
 Either she already likes someone else or she thought you were too forward too soon. Next time do not push it. She may be shyer than most girls.
If she has suffered a cheating boyfriend then she may be super wary about any relationship at the moment.
You were a gentleman to walk her home. That is in your favour. The fact that she felt comfortable enough with you to walk home with you is a huge Plus in your favour.
Get to know her a little more but just as a friend initially. Some girls like to really feel comfortable with a guy before they will allow a kiss or more.
Patience can win a lady.
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