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writes:My ex boyfriend said he cheated on me and that it depended on what i considered cheating. He said he called a girl hot and flirted with her but didnt realize it till after. He said he was really super sorry. So then i brought it up with 1 of his friends and he said there was more that went on. The girl went over to his house and slept with him in his room. So instantly you think they did stuff but he said he didnt hear anything. What bothers me is that if this is true he lied to me not telling me the whole story. I haven't got to talk 2 him yet but im still upset. I dont know if i still love him :/. But i know i love him just not sure if im in love with him anymore. After i told my ex that we should just be friends his friend told me his eyes watered and they started to water again when i told him we shouldnt talk again. His friend also told me he hasnt left the house since and thwt he just wanted me to be happy and he thought thats what i wanted. Im so confused!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2012): I would be confused too.Why would a young man who is in a relationship, steady dating is a commitment, think it would be okay to invite another girl to his room?You won't be able to trust this young man now. As he has proven he is untrustworthy. He is capable of wanting, desiring and action on such feelings for another young woman.Let the Fool cry his eyes out. Consequences for poor, dishonest actions and desires.You will heal, move on, and find another young man that will honour you and your relationship.You want to remain firm on such beliefs as how you date now examples how you date later and what you honour as a loving relationship.Faithfulness, fidelity, monogamy EVEN MEANS in thoughts to the point the actions reflect the thoughts.An Honest Young Man would NEVER put himself into such a situation.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 You have made the right decision. I am proud of you that you know what really you should do as you can sit and ponder forever about what really happened but noone really knows apart from them two.
Things are better ending now where you can move on and be treated right as you will end up always doubting whether or not you can trust him if you continued together.
You have made the right decision and not look back :)
Good luck!
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