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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I dump my b/f because he isn't sympathetic when I'm having my period?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend isnt sympathetic when i am on my period, should i dump him ?. He calls me moody and says that he wont put up with the way i am every month when its my time of the month. I get severe cramps and it really gets me down. I know men dont understand what it is like, ... (73 words)

Why does my wife wear sexy panties at work and granny panties at home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age - I'll try to keep this brief. She wears sexy panties and thongs to work but granny panties at home and sometimes, about 50% of the time, wears no panties to work. When questioned about no panties she explains she wore the same ugly pair because she was expecting her pe... (178 words)

What do you think when you hear a guy has never had a relationship and he's now 30 years old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there. i only need advice from woman in order to get the right answers. im turning 30 next month and have never had a long term relationship. longest ever was 3 months. i have slept with probably 50 woman at least so getting a girl to date isnt really my issue. i know im ... (165 words)

She's made me feel like I'm the crazy one, but she's lied, and pushed me away, and I just can't understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a bit of an odd question, and i'm hoping someone will be able to help me in one way or another. i've posted on here a few times about the same thing cause something always felt a bit off to me, now i KNOW something is wrong. i've been dating this girl for a little whi... (1370 words)

Advice needed about anemia

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - For over five years now my doctor has been saying that I have symptoms of chronic fatigue - but I think that what is wrong is that I am anaemic. Does anyone know much about long-term anaemia? I don't think I have really bad anaemia but enough to undermine my health - my ... (261 words)

Lesbian girlfriend too deep in the closet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a lesbian relationship with my girlfriend for 14 months now, its actually a wonderful relationship but it has its problems. My gf and I are both in the closet about our relationship to coworkers and family. A couple of my friends know but no one other than her two ... (603 words)

How to deal when ex's life is so much better without you in their lives

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all I need some help. My ex and I have been broken up for a year now and the road to recovery has been drastically different between the two of us. Ever since she ended things with me, she has a new boyfriend a few days after ending things with me, and whom she's engaged ... (301 words)

Two guys, one is an ex, which one do I chose?

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8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so here is the deal. I'm dating two guys. They are both great, tall, attractive, caring, and I get along greatly with the two of them. One is my ex. We dated for a bit over 4 years and it didn't work out because he was too immature. He was talking to several other gi... (363 words)

Does sex on the first date ruin the chance of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am now seeing this guy whom i have been talking to for while on the internet.I tried not to have sex with on the first date as I have been told that he will dump me and a relationship will not happen if you sleep with them straight away.I asked him if this would happen and he ... (117 words)

Boyfriend cancelling dates, is he bored with me?

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8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my new boyfriend is getting bored of me already! He had to cancel our date tonight for the second time and I,m getting sick of it and he's hardly texting me as much as he used 2. Admitedly we've never had sex. We,ve been feeling up each other well i keep him above the ... (94 words)

My Dad is threatening me with the police

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got in a car wreck about 2 weeks ago...my dad is very mad at me. He has threatened to call the cops on me and lie and say that i stole his vehicle when i didn't. Well that is not what bothers me. He has also threatened to call the cops and get me for solicitation of a minor. ... (118 words)

Should I experiment with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i have liked this girl for ages! and we have had our times flirting now and again, she knows am bi and that I like her but she says she's flattered but she thinks she's straight. but we stopped talking for like two months, so last night I'am on my laptop then my phone ... (248 words)

Weeks have went by, he said he'd call but he hasn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i am confused. this guy was going to ring me and get to know me but, weeks have gone past but noo reply, its kinda confusing i don't have his number and i am glad i don't. But it is nice to know where you stand if you get me any advice ?... (62 words)

I'm going off to college, he wants a break, I'm scared, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has asked me to take a break from our relationship. We have been together for 5 months now. I am going off to college and he is so overstressed about school, football, me leaving, and his good friend going over seas. I love this boy more than anything, so i'm ... (166 words)

My parents won't let me study at home and I don't want to go back to school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello dearcupid. I am a 16 year old english girl and i moved to spain when i was 11. I did the last year of primary school here and i have done 4 years at secondary school. When i first moved here i made english friends and sort of stuck with them all through my school years. ... (171 words)

I like one of my sister's friend but I can't tell her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Heey :) Right so here is my problem. The other day I walked home with my older sister and her friends. And I now kinda like one of her friends. He is a year older than me and smiles at me and is just really nice! One day after school, I have this club on, and she has a differen... (177 words)

I need to know how to stop this reaction to seeing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Last month nearly two months I ended a short relationship with a guy and I had a problem that I posted a question on here. I used to feel sick when I looked at photos of him (it was a messy breakup) and I was worried that when I went back to college I would feel like this ... (184 words)

My ex is demanding money that he gave me as a gift

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up almost a year ago, however since that time we have remained 'friends' (i say that loosely as its been a very turbulant time, sometimes we've got on and acted like a couple still, other times we argue constantly) he made my life hell during the relationship ... (273 words)

My boyfriend has no insecurity concerning me! I wish he'd be a little more protective...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This may not seem like a huge problem but my boyfriend has no insecurity concerning me. He doesn't mind if I hang out with boys, even ones who fancy me. He just says he trusts me. I wish he'd be a little more protective. ... (44 words)

Why is my partner ringing his ex in the middle of the night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for over 2 years and our wedding is booked. He owns a house with his ex and is in the process of selling it. She has been a nightmare through the whole thing and we have had to go to court and all sorts. Finally she is being human and my partner has ... (137 words)

I've changed my mind about sex before marriage and want to have sex with my boyfriend, but we just don't have anywhere to go! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 19 year old gal and have been dating my bf for 2years 11months i've never had sex before but we fool around a lot. Whn we met i told him i dont want to have sex until we married he agreed and took the sex idea out of his head. SO NOW im the 1 who wants to have sex. ... (129 words)

My wife thinks I have a small penis!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks my penis is more on the smal... (189 words)

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - please help! Here are the facts: I stopped taking the pill birth control in april 2011 I have reguar periods and a pretty normal cycle. Last missed period: may 24. I found out I was pregnant: june 25 I cheated on my boyfriend on: june 5 I know it was so stupid ... (168 words)

My boyfriend substituted me for my sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I just need advice on this thing that happened recently my boyfriend sent a text to my sister just out of the blue and says that he's liked her for a long time even before me and him got together and because my sister had a relationship at that time he didn't pursue her. He ... (234 words)

My bad attitude is pushing him away! How do I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really upset my boyfriend, i always keep him awake at night, because i find it hard to sleep, so i keep nudging him to wake up and it really pisses him off, i also have this childish attitude when im upset, and i talk a lot, and ask him a lot of questions all the time which ... (93 words)

Why did he tell me he liked the head massages I give him and then go get one elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age - Hi, I would like you aunts opinion on this please,and if i'm being silly and just over reacting. I have been in a relationship for over 7yrs with the same man, he always tells me how good he feels when he is with me,and how relaxed he is when i give him head and back massages... (152 words)

Why am I attracted to someone else when I know I could never love anyone other than my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey. simple situation where I would like an insight on my emotions. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half solid years. We are now living together. We have had our bumps and lows but we have always loved each other dearly. I love him and I have no doubt he is the ... (157 words)

How to deal with the unfairness of life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Growing up I was poor and my 2 best friends were from rich families. It was hard for me, but I realized it was not my fault and it was not their accomplishment. Now, we have all finished the same university, have the same degree and have our first jobs. However, the amount of ... (131 words)

Should I keep this baby? I've already had 2 abortions but I think I want to keep this one, but my boyfriend isnt supportive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. I am in a big dilemma. I just found out that I am pregnant. The problem is that my boyfriend is not supportive at all. He actually says that he doesnt want a baby with me.. I have already had two abortions, the last one in february. I am on the pill, but still I ... (154 words)

How can I make my ex want me more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have recently moved in with my ex which we also have a child together. We havnt been together in 3 years yet remained friends. The living situation was "friends only" and for financial reasons. Recently he started flirting with me more and we have slept together again ... (120 words)

Due to be married to a woman who thinks sex is only for reproduction! I don't know if I can deal with a life without sex....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello everyone. I had a chat with my fiance the other evening. I was concerned about our lack of sexual activities. I asked why she never gives oral no hand jobs without asking. And very little sex. When we do have sex i do all for her oral and hands so she has cum before ... (155 words)

What should I do? I feel heartbroken and don’t know whether I am in the wrong or he is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me gain perspective on this I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I don’t live together, although he stays at my flat every night. For the most part, we are very happy together – have loads of fun times out and family times etc but we are both stubborn and qu... (893 words)

We both have partners but I really like him, am I living in a fantasy world or should I make a move on this guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship that is going nowhere. My partner, though a good father to our child is a non violent alcoholic whom is emotionally abusive. Though I love him, I don't believe I am in love with him anymore. A few months back I met a man whom I believe may be my soul ... (227 words)

What can I do to keep myself busy until I go to Uni next year? All my friends have moved away and I'm depressed about not going to Uni this year....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, im feeling really depressed and i know its only going to get worse. I want to be a midwife and my school adviser told me to apply for the midwifery course straight away. I did this, and got rejected. This being because they prefer you to be a nurse already before u... (427 words)

Should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hullo, my question is i dated a guy for a year and so who promised me marriage but i guess he realized he coudnt manage so slowly withdrew and eventually called off the relationship saying we should just be friends but he still kept on calling me. After some time i decided ... (118 words)

I love her but she said there is nothing on her side, what should I do now? Is she just being shy and she actually does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi friends and i am a student of 12th class well the problem is that i like a girl in my class since 6-7 months and most probably now started loving her so firstly she used to talk to me very frankly but from last 3-4 months she doesnt talk to me anymore and if i used to... (235 words)

Obviously interested, but avoids spending extra time with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a few months ago who works in close proximity to me, and I noticed that she'd always look at me in an admiring and adorable way. I too thought she was adorable, so I went up to her one day and we started talking. We did the whole 'casual' chat a few times, then I ... (309 words)

I love my cousin but he doesn't love me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to my grandpa's funeral today and I saw my cousin who I've been in love with for 3 years. He and I got moments alone and finally, I asked him how he felt about me after a failed relationship 3 years ago. I told him how I felt and ended up spontaneously kissing him. He ... (115 words)

How do I ask if she's bi without ruining our friendship?

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8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female, and have a bestfriend who is also female. We are so close and i would do anything for this girl. I am married and she is single. I am also bi. When we first started being friends i told her this and she never judged me at all and accepted the fact. And we just ... (210 words)

How can I get him to be my boyfriend again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i love him and he tells me he loves me. But everythings changed over something his mate did. He doesnt believe me but he tells me he still loves me. How can i get him to be my bf , i dont know what to do :(... (47 words)

A friend that hugs all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey aunts! I have a little problem, theres a friend of mine that i like but im not sure if he likes me back so please help!!! So, he loves to hug me and we could hug for hours without saying anything, then, for my birthday, he made me a cake that he made and frosted himself! He ... (100 words)

How do I ask fiance's dad and uncle to walk me down the aisle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. My fiance and I have been engaged for a few weeks now. I hope for a wedding in a year or so, after we're done with important events / work, etc.. My fiance's not very close with his dad. His father walked out on him, and has only started contacting him through p... (164 words)

Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He took some when we got back and ... (417 words)

I'm not sure how guys see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like makeup. I always have my full face done - that's what I like and feel comfortable with, BUT I'm worried that guys may look at me in the wrong way. Inside (personality-wise) I'm a religious, reserved, silly person but I'm afraid my exterior won't/isn't showing that. I ... (292 words)

I want to talk to her before I lose the chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (M) age 26-29 - I have recently come to terms with some life changing emotions. I have realized that the girl I have had a crush on for the last 2 years could be the girl I want to be with forever. I've also realized that I might not have forever to talk to her about my feelings and want to ... (69 words)

What's the point of asking me out if he's just going to cancel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy cancel a date that HE asked me out on and then say they'll reschedule but never do? whats the point of asking me out in the first place? whats the point of calling me up and sweet talking me?? i dont get why he even bothered to, or why he bothered to say he had ... (71 words)

Husband treats me like he hates me and has so much anger toward me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been married 2 yrs now. I met my husband on vacation and we married a year later. I saw a few signs that he had a very bad temper but the love he had or that we had for eachother seemed just perfect! He was so different than any of my other relationships and it felt ... (317 words)

Why can't I just like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why Can't I just like him? I knew this guy for four years. He 's pretty catchy--good looking (enough), REALLY intelligent, understands my cultural/religious values and embraces them and I embrace his views, shares other similar values (non-judgement, liberal, etc). I feel lik... (219 words)

He masturbated with my photos now he's avoiding me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who has been first my coworker and then my friend for some time. He has been a big flirt, but had a girlfriend who dumped him 6 months ago. He has started to waste time with girls as a gigolo he says. He started flirting on me. I liked him a lot since long a... (242 words)

Is he keeping me around to impress his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - We're not officially together anymore,we're kinda taking a break. We're married on facebook, and when people refer to me as his girlfriend he doesn't deny it. Like if someone says he has a really pretty girlfriend, which his friends do a lot, he blushes or says thanks. When ... (197 words)

Will this plan work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello there :), I'm a closeted sophmore and for months now I've been trying to figure out a way to come out of the closet to my friends and family. I've thought of all the possible out comes and I have a back up plan in case things go badly. But I'm not sure how to go about ... (283 words)

Facebook relationship status. Distant boyfriend. Post break-up issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. He used to be the sweetest guy and as soon as we god together he changed his relationship status on Facebook to In a Relationship, he would always come to see me, he would write sweet messages to me on my wall, etc (he ... (618 words)

Why did I want this guy to try to grab me and have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just walking and then I saw this guy from far away with a large dog, walking towards my direction. I stared at the dog because it was just super tall and it seemed as if it was trying to free itself from its owner. And then without thinking much, I looked at the guy's ... (146 words)

What should I do to save our relationship? BF says he loves me more as a close friend than a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm feeling my bf is pulling away from me, I think he is just not that interested in me as he did before. We've been together for 8 months, and last week we talked about break up, he clearly wants to be real close friend if break up, like he wants to hangout all the time, ... (192 words)

For 4 years I've been trying to get him to notice me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy in my class for 4 years now and im always tryin to get him to notice me.he shows no interest in me at all .he barley even talks to me. i dont want to tell how i feel right away because that might freak him out . i just want to know how i can atleast get him ... (63 words)

Am I wrong for taking my daughter away from this cheat or should I try and make it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short! I don't know if I can make my relationship work. I feel miserable!!! We have a daughter together she is 1 month and 1 week today, too be honest when I first found out I was pregnant I thought our relationship was going to change for the better and truth... (714 words)

Are his different ways of saying "I love you" ways to show that he's playing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, um.......I know that this topic may seem irrelevant or small but honestly I just want some opinions. My boyfriend has been with me now for 2 years this coming september 27th. All this time he's been showing his love with his actions which I think is a good way to prove love ... (148 words)

Is he trying to let me down gently or does he really want "friendship"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

8 September 2011 (?) age 41-50 - A guy contacted me on line. We corresponded for about 3 weeks and the conversation was good. I asked if we could meet up and things kept getting in the way; first it was my family commitments, then it was extreme weather, then it was his work. He sent me a message yesterda... (238 words)

I've had a crush on her since 1981. Now that I've told her she has stopped contacting me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

8 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a friend on Facebook. I have known since 1981. I have had a crush on all this time. The 20 years that I didn't talk to her, she was still on my mind. She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, or ever will. So I wrote to her saying, that I had a crush on her ... (144 words)

To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything would be over. I don't feel ... (146 words)

Confused and getting mixed messages...

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8 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 4.5years i am 28 she has just turned 21 and she left me 4weeks ago then come back after a week and left again after 2 weeks saying things got on top of her and it was to late, my family and friends have contacted her asking if she is ok and she didn't reply but ... (160 words)

My husband insists nothing happened between him and his female friend, but I know he's lying

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

8 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry for the length, needed to vent. I have been with my partner 9 years. He has a job that means he is away from home at least 1 night a week, but usually more. Late last year I became aware of a woman he had befriended (he felt sorry for her because her husband was ... (380 words)