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female
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36-40,
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writes:OK so here is the deal. I'm dating two guys. They are both great, tall, attractive, caring, and I get along greatly with the two of them. One is my ex. We dated for a bit over 4 years and it didn't work out because he was too immature. He was talking to several other girls and yes, I did give him several chances. He eventually broke up with me, but we still kept in contact to some exent. Just recently we started seriously talking again and he wants to get back together. We have been officially broken up for 6 months now. He does seem to have matured some more, is more considerate, supports me, and of course knows me much better than anyone else. He is pretty much like my best friend, but I'm not sure. Yes, he knows my deepest secrets that I can't really tell anyone.The second guy is a guy I met at school function. He and I both attended the same university. I met him after the ex and I broke up. We have been talking and casually dating since the beginning of April, but recently I found out that he has been taking our relationship more seriously and does not want my ex in my life at all. He does not know some things about me that my ex does - but is that a deal breaker. Should I tell him first and see what his response is and go from there.I'm not sure if I want to get married now. I am by no means old, but I just don't feel like wasting my time. I spent 4 years with the ex and the only thing I want from him is a ring. I know he can do that later, but now now. This new guy is some years older than me. I don't know guys, I'm really confused. A little guidance, please?
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