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writes:I have a friend who has been first my coworker and then my friend for some time. He has been a big flirt, but had a girlfriend who dumped him 6 months ago. He has started to waste time with girls as a gigolo he says.He started flirting on me. I liked him a lot since long ago, so one night things became hot and we ended up masturbating each other by web messenger. He sent me naked pictures and so did I. We hit ted off and was great time. We did it a second time, but now I see he is acting weird. I asked him if he still wanted to do it and he just asked "Do you?" and didn't looked me in the eye. I asked him if it was that he didn't liked me and he immediately said "Of course I do like you a lot!" but no more response from him wanting something more. I told him I am a virgin girl and wanted him to pop my cherry (b/c I am) and not even with that he seems to be real interested.What do you think is going on with him? I know he's hurt and has been his confidant, but now he seems to withdrawn away :( What should I do?If he's really a gigolo why is he acting this way?
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reader, J.Gentleman  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 My experience would be that there was a reason his gf broke up with him, and he is afraid that if he got with you, then you would leave him for the same reason.
At least that is what I think
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 Hello,
Some things don't seem to add up with him. A gigolo type would be very interested in a virgin. He is still recovering from his previous relationship so that could be a major factor. He may be looking for something short term but sees a virgin girl as long term commitment. It may be he doesn't want to lead you on. He knows he is not in the right mind to have any deep relationships yet. As for the naked pics fun, he could be trying not to lead you on or he may feel slightly embarrassed. From personal experience, I worked with a girl once and we got on great and we did a similar thing and she let me loan her shoes for the evening. I felf really really embarrassed the following morning when I handed them back. At the time I wanted them, but afterwards felt kinda silly and a bit sad. So to sum up, I do not believe he is ready yet for any relationships or commitments and that could be why he pulls back.
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