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anonymous
writes:I met a girl a few months ago who works in close proximity to me, and I noticed that she'd always look at me in an admiring and adorable way. I too thought she was adorable, so I went up to her one day and we started talking. We did the whole 'casual' chat a few times, then I asked her for her number. She gave it to me and we shared a few texts and that was that. I clearly thought she wasn't that interested as we didn't talk for a while after that. But recently we have been bumping into each other around work a little more and we've been having short, but cute conversations. She lights up whenever she sees me now, we flirt openly, kiss and hug hello, have cute alternative names for each other and she's even suggested we have a coffee soon. After these interactions, I've been trying to get her to go out with me but she tells me she is either 'too tired' or busy. I don't know why she does this, but for instance after I invited her out for a hot chocolate, she said she will let me know. but soon after she said she'd decided to head home instead. I then told her that it was okay and that there will be another time, and she said that she will look forward to seeing me again. From our interactions I am certain that she has a thing for me, but I think perhaps she might not trust me enough to go out with me just yet. Or that she might be a little nervous by the prospect of being alone with me. Perhaps I am reading too much into this and should wait to see what happens. What do you guys think I should do in this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): I would definitely flirt with her if she flirts first but I would not seek her out to flirt n date...it could be she's not ready for stability...just fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2011): Thank you for your reply :) I too thought this was the case, but when we first started talking she asked me how my 'love life' was going and I told her it was 'non-existent.' I asked her the same question and she said she had nothing going on, and that she had been too busy for that sort of thing lately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2011): Is it possible she's in a relationship already? And just like the extra attention from you. I would still flirt with her but I wouldn't make plans outside work. Let that be her call and when she is ready you will be asked out. Good luck...
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