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How do I ask if she's bi without ruining our friendship?

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Question - (8 September 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a female, and have a bestfriend who is also female. We are so close and i would do anything for this girl. I am married and she is single. I am also bi. When we first started being friends i told her this and she never judged me at all and accepted the fact. And we just kind of moved on. But lately i think she has been hitting on me. She has never told me she was bi and im pretty sure she has never even kissed an other girl let alone be with one sexually. But i think she might be curious. She flirts with me all the time, hugs me, sits on my lap, massages me and we tell eachother we love eachother. Im curious to ask but i dont want to scare or offend her. How do i bring this up? My husband knows how i feel and isnt threatened at all. So this is not an issue. We have even talked about spicing things up with a threesome. And if we were i would totally choose my bestfriend over anyone. But thats not my main focus here. I just want to see how she truly feels and how to ask her. Any ideas?

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