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writes:So i have liked this girl for ages! and we have had our times flirting now and again, she knows am bi and that I like her but she says she's flattered but she thinks she's straight. but we stopped talking for like two months, so last night I'am on my laptop then my phone buzzes, its from her. the text says, "hey, i figured out I'am bi" and I was like really! then she said "yes and I think I want to know how it feels to kiss another girl, would you experiment with me" now to me this is really like a dream, because I have liked her since the first time I met her, but my problem is, should I go for it, maybe she is just using me as a experiment then she is going to forget about me. she says me and her should go to the cinema at some point to try it out, but she also said she wants to try more than kissing, like going all the way!now I have never ever went "all the way" with a guy let alone with a girl, I suppose I'am curious to do it but dont think I would be comfortable? so I need help, should I experiment with her? should I go all the way with her? is there a chance that she is just using me? advice would be great! thanks guys 3
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (9 September 2011):
 Just go for it, OP.
You said that YOU wanted to experiment too, so if you ARE being used, use the experience yourself. We all need to start somewhere and you are at the age where you will quickly recover if things don't go the way you want them to, and you can move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): I really think you need to be honest and talk with her about how you are feeling. Chances are, as you've said yourself, because you like her you will end up getting hurt if she decides to just stop at experimenting. It is a huge risk, and if I were in your position I would most likely not go through with it, no matter how strongly I feel for this person. If you are okay with just experimenting and you are sure that no other feelings will get in the way then go for it. But I think things could get a little messy along the way with your emotions if you are not. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): There is a massive chance this is just an experimental thing. So if your feelings go beyond that you'd be wise to steer clear or shelve them and just have fun.
Because if you have feelings for someone that they don't have for you and you spend an aweful amount of time trying to make them return it... you will only end up bitter and hurt.
So you need to choose. Do you want to take the chance it could lead to something more but run the risk it won't, or do you want to make sure the woman you are with wants the same things from as you do from her?
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