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Why did I want this guy to try to grab me and have sex with me?

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Question - (8 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was just walking and then I saw this guy from far away with a large dog, walking towards my direction. I stared at the dog because it was just super tall and it seemed as if it was trying to free itself from its owner. And then without thinking much, I looked at the guy's face and all of a sudden my lust for this guy was boiling hot. The dog was barking at me and I looked away when they got closer. This happened today but I can't stop having fantasy about him popping out of nowhere and just grabbing me and trying to have sex with me. He wasn't attractive or anything... maybe what a typical homeless guy would look like... So what's wrong with me? Why do I feel this way about this guy? Am I a slut for feeling this way?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011):

You are probably ovulating.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 September 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntNahh, you were just horny. I've felt that way before. In your fantasy world, be grabbed and having random, wild sex with a stranger is super fun. In reality, and I'm sure you understand this - being grabbed a forcibly made to have sex with this guy would not have been as sexy as you think.

So when the lust and hormones come over you, try and listen to your gut too and keep yourself safe and with one foot in reality. You're not a slut. Just horny. And that's totally normal and okay.

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