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writes: my relationship is going no where ??? please helpI'm 24yrs old and in love with a guy who is 23 for the last 3yrs. Now the relationship is going a bit wayward as he gets angry with me all the time,curses me. He tells me that he has relationship with other guys as well. he loves someone else and finds no quality in me. Please help what should i do , I really love him very much. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Move on. If he doesn't love you back (and loves somebody else instead) then there's no point working on the relationship. Dump him and find someone who wants to be with you and vice versa.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): You don't need us to tell you to run like hell, do you? I think you know yourself that this is going nowhere, so why are you still with him. He cannot care a bit for you if he treats you like this.
Get out now and find someone who you so rightly deserve.
Take care
xx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (30 March 2007):
You need to get out now! This relationship is not healthy. You are allowing him to get away with this because you love him. You need to move on. its never easy when you love someone, but honey he loves someone else hes told you that. You deserve better than that. You will continue to get hurt the longer this goes on. He really isnt being fair on you.
Take time to be on your own and remember who you are. And then get out there and find someone that will love you the same way you love them. Love us unconditional as you know and when we dotn get it back it hurts like hell. Safe on even more hurt, but getting away from it. You might not want to admit, but the relationship is past saving. You need to save yourself. Dont let him continue to treat you in this way its very unfair and he needs to be told you wont be putitng up with it.
Look after yourself.
Take care x x
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