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Should I talk to him about the email I saw or leave it?

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Question - (30 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, **HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*} writes:

well i found this from my boyfriends bebo mailbox...

Subject RE: hey

Sent 276 days ago

eres a dilema!!!

a guy has a gf, he chats 2 3otha galz dey lyk him, he finks of dem as m8s!!! 1 day he accidently let slip dat he lyks dem. now dey wnt him!!! wat shal he do?

u gt experience lubna tel me!!!

xxxxxxxx

if you dont understand what it says, he has mailed his frend askin 4 advice, about him having a gf (me) and lyking 3 other girls, he has told the other girls he likes them an they all want him now.

i felt really terrible and hurt when i read this, however it says 276 days ago. i dont know what to do, should i talk 2 him about it or will he be upset that ive been reading his mails?

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A female reader, Silence is Golden United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2007):

i wouldnt say anything about that email either. First of all he will think you dont trust him to be going through his mail in the first place and thats invation of privacy. If you dont trust him and you keep quiet at least you will always be one step ahead of him by knowing his email address and being able to read up what he is up to. But i personally dont think you have anything to worry about. Dont let such an old email worry you. He has obviously made his choice and is with you. :).

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A male reader, ChiRaven United States +, writes (31 March 2007):

ChiRaven agony auntSheesh! You gotta drag something up from last year on this guy? Obviously if you two are still together he wasn't really serious about those other galz and didn't let them distract him from his #1 interest ... you.

I wouldn't advise you to actually forget this. You know your guy is prone to look around behind your back, so keep that in mind in the future. If you find him pulling stuff like this again, let him have it with both barrels. But don't bring this particular incident up to him now, nine months after the fact.

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