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*railerparkboy97
writes:Hi there, I am currently dealing with a problem in my relationship. Well Ive been seing this one gurl for quite some time now and i must say Im very in love with her and shes the one. But one thing thats kind of difficult to do is tell her a fetish I really enjoy and want to do very badly. The fetish is facesitting, aka a butt fetish. Where she sits on my face with her butt and gives me a handjob to get me off lol embarassing to say. Well I did it with my last girlfriend, and I loved it and very badly want to do it with my current girlfriend. Its just I cant say it like sometimes I say to her 'You know I like butts and feet but theres one other thing I like' and she goes 'ooh what is it' and I just cant bring myself to say it like its hard. Can you please give me some tips how to tell her, or how I should bring it up. Or what if your serious boyfriend said this to you, how would you react? I know deep down I can say anything to her and I know she loves me very much and wont think im weird or anything, but I just need help how to introduce it to her. Ok thank you very much, Hope to hear from you soon!
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reader, trailerparkboy97 +, writes (2 April 2007):
trailerparkboy97 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot everyone haha this has really helped me out, I really feel more confident about telling her now, Especially after I got a female perspective. I want to thank you all very much, all the ideas and advice really sound good. So hopefully tonite or in the next couple days Im going to keep going slow by telling her more and more and make her wonder. If I keep doing this it will show how much I really like it and she'll understand. I am going to see her next weekened and hopefully before then I tell her and we could try it out. I almost told her when we were intimate a few weeks back, We were really making out hard in bed, and I was like ok theres one other thing I really like and want u to do and shes like what is it, but then i stopped talking for like a minute then I brang it back up and it almost sounded like she was annoyed cuz she was like what? Like cause i interrupted her, so I decided not to say it there, Its a really good idea and It would work i know it by telling her when were being intimate, but I wanna tell her slowly so shes how much I want to do it. I am very much in love with her and I know I must tell her soon and she probably wont have a problem with it. I was just asking before like 2 weeks ago about a facesit like cause she already lets me put my face down there in her butt but she wont sit on me. I asked her and shes like No, Im not doing that I'll squish u lol she dosent understand like theres ways to do it without hurting or squishing me, I know from experience So it dosent. This is what really made me so nervous to ask her, its like she dosent want too ahhh. Well Thank you all very much, hope to hear from you again,
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Be on your toes and ready to get out of the situation if she freaks, but you seem close enough that you can approach the topic reasonably. Go slow, remind her there is something you really crave, she will really want to know. Make sure she knows how you feel about her (love?) and how you feel about this (need it and are unsure).
Trust me, I had a thing and felt I couldnt tell my boyfriend. When I finally did he practically got on his knees to thank me lol. Personally I like the idea, your last girlfriend did as well, and as your new girlfriend does she will likely be okay with it too. If she does try to gage how strongly she is against it, discuss different possiblities but dont force her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Whew! Well, if it has the same affect on her as it did for me then I think you'll be fine just telling her. Seriously though, if you guys are that close and you already feel that you can tell her anything, then why should this be different? I don't think your fetish is beyond the realm of normal, I found it to be quite exiting. She probably will too. If you're afraid to bring it up in conversation then maybe you could just slowly incorporate it in your next intercourse session. Or tell her that you had a dream about her and the thought of it really made you excited and you know she'll want to know what it was. I don't think you need to worry, especially if you guys are close. Good luck!
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