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writes:Ok so i will try to make this as short and brief as i can. I have known this girl for quite a while now about 4 months and i really like her but we got off at a really stupid start. Before i got to know her i had told some friends that i liked her, and ofcoarse people like to gossip and i was mentioned to her friends which led to her knowing i liked her... But all this time i didnt know she knew this. At first i would usually talk to her during the times my friends were around talking to her so we didnt really know each other, but as time passed i bumped into her ocasionally and we talked more.After that my friend set us up without telling me but she knew i was coming where as i didnt. Later on we got to know each other more and one day she called me telling me whether i wanted to go with her and her friends... So i said alright and went to meet them. During their conversations i picked up the fact that shes interested in a guy that i didnt know so i was really curious. After while i found out they were both dating and i was really upset but i decided to move forward.Therefore i started to not pay attention as i use to, almost like ignoring her most the time because i didnt want to care anymore. While i was doing that one of her friends came up to me and asked me "Whats goin on? why are you ignoring us?"i told her "Im not ignoring you...but her.. probably" so she told me well just to you know she is very upset your ignoring her.So i started to think to myself why would she be upset if she doesnt like me back? couldnt she like me but in the same time be confused between me and that "date" of hers? So i started to pay more attention to her and yeah i started to go nutts for her again. But something happened, there was a shakira concert recently in cairo and i went to it... i was seating in the vip area and there was an open bar, to be honest i could not even remember how many things i drank all i know is i was too drunk but didnt pass out. So i was sitting with friends mainly couples and started to think about her again so i decided to call her and i have a pretty good idea of what i said which was probably a confession of the WHOLE story from a to z. Right know she knows everything they way i felt for her the reason why i was ignoring her everything. She wasnt upset from what she heard she actually had a laugh about it and told all her close friends. And one of them told me nice confession if i was to think about this situation i would say she likes you back but there is something goin on in her head. Now i know i have said alot but it was necesary to give you a scope if the situation... The question is, What should i do? I am sure that deep down she doesnt like her current boyfriend and that hes just this guy shes dating nothing special... So what do i do?Honestly im just thinking of going and asking her what am i to her, whether she likes me or not if she denies the fact she doesnt like me i will just say "well you look into my eyes and tell me you dont love me" at least then i will get to the bottom line.Please tell me your opinion/advice on waht to do and the situation.Thanks in advanceP.S. Sorry its quite long :P
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reader, nologo  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Okay, my opinion on your situation.
This girl just wants to be popular.
You told some friends that you liked her, so they arranged your meeting with her.
During the very first time with her you learned that she is dating another guy.
Nonetheless, she is very upset, you should be paying more attention to her?
Role of friends in her life is so high that they actually influence her dating!
You called her and made a confession of the whole story - little result if any.
Go on, speak to her, but don't expect too much from her.
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