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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i am a female and for the last 6 months i have been in a secret relationship with a married women. I love her and she loves me, but as someone who has always been straight how can i possibly come out and admit my love Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Her husband (if she's married to a man) will be both shocked and upset if the affair gets exposed and he finds out that his wife is having an affair with a woman. But the point is, like almost all relationship between two people (with at least one of them married, engaged or have a partner) is that the person having the affair playing behind their back doesn't find out. So get out of this affair and move on. Find someone who isn't attached.
As for telling family and friends that you are gay they might be a bit shocked at first but they should be able to find it in their hearts to think that it doesn't matter whether you are gay, straight or bi-sexual.
A
female
reader, cd206  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 I'm not sure if the issue here is that you're gay to be honest. If you're unhappy in your marriage you owe it to yourself to get out before you're tied down by kids or joint mortgages or whatever. The main issue to me seems to be that you're both cheating on your husbands. You both need to make the decision to separate from them before you can be together or admit your love. Cheating is still cheating whatever the situation.
CD
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