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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out. I think it would be a waste to not work it out. Bascially I still love him, and he is not showing any signs of anything, apart from he is angry at me. How can I go about trying to talk to him and at least hear me out. The break up was bad (6 months ago), but not because anyone cheated, I handled it badly and so did he I guess. Neither of us have been perfect and it is sad because we had something great. I am feeling happy with my life again, and I want him to be a part of it... what should I do?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 March 2007):
 You need to sit down and write him a letter. Don't rabbit on and on in it about nothing, guys like the facts! Tell him you are much more grounded now and have had a long hard think about things, you can see now how you didn't give him the space he so needed and you apologise for that. Even though you want to move on with your life, the thought of him not being in it makes it unbearable for you. You know you're not perfect but then who is....? All you know is that you love him so very much and if he can give you one more chance then you'll prove that to him. You want to wipe the slate clean where both your pasts are concerned and start afresh. Although you had your fights, let him know that you also had something rare and beautiful... cheating on him with someone else was NEVER an option for you as although he might not be perfect, he's perfect for you.
Leave a number he can contact you at and put a dab of your favourite perfume on the letter, send it then wait.....
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry - we were together almost two years, but on and off as he kept breaking up with me for no reason... Difficult situation resally. Hope you can help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Eve, I am 26 and he is 29. We broek up 6 months ago becasue we kept fighting about my past - he didnt trust me and he always thought I was going to go off with someone else and neot tell him. I have never been unfaihful to him and I never would, but I didnt tell him everything about my past either so now he thinks I am a liar, but really it was none of his business and I was never comfortable talking to him as I sometimes he can be judgemental. Not that my past is bad at all, it is normal, I have done what most girls do in their late teens/early 20's. We did talk a bit after the breakup, and we had one relaly long conversation (6 hours) where we talked about things and agreed we needed space, which I didnt give him and then things turned sour. NOw he wont talk to me at all and I dont knnow what to do.... I hope this helps a little bit for you to answer. Thanks x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 March 2007):
How long were you and your ex together? How old are you both? Why did you both break up? Have you heard from him at all since the break up?
Eve
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