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writes:i need ur opinion.today i had midterm exams and the guy sitting behind me is 1 year older..he has never talked to me as he is in grade 12 and im in 11th. but yesturday he asked me what did the teacher have up on the board... then today he asks me what exam i have..so i told him then he says jokingly and smiling i hope u won't do well:P then i say why:D and added i hope u don't do well as well!! then as i was thinking of solving the hardest question in the test scribbling the answer on a draft he then said how do u write? then i say huh???what's wrong with it?so do u think these are signs he likes me cuz he has never talked to me before although first semester exmas we were in the same class, him behind me, and had never talked to me and this time when he did he was smiling! so i really need help to know..(cuz i USED to like him)thx Reply to this Question
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reader, baby blue fairy  +, writes (31 March 2007):
heya well maybe he was nervous and so needed reasurance and with you by him smiling he thought hed chat to a happy face! ask him how he is and if hed like to meet up to chat about stuff and if it turns out he does like you go for it! but dont scare him best of luck tell me how it goes if poss xxx
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reader, thor +, writes (31 March 2007):
 i agree with chi, just go up to him and ask same things like what lesson do you have etc. make the odd conversation. maybe he has seen your personality and likes it, he wants to make friends. its not a sissy thing and most guys like to hang out with girls as just friends. they have more to talk about instead of just footy. you never know you might be good friends in the end, the type that can share things or maybe it could lead to a good relationship. dont rush things let it happen.
good luck
thor
ps.... come back and let us know how it went
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Well, at least it's a start. Why not try to get some conversation going with him OUTSIDE class some time (ask him what the assignment for tomorrow was or something) and see how he responds to that? Then lead him into talking about something further, if that works.
We can't tell you for sure. But if he IS interested, chances are he'll let you know if you put yourself in the way and give him a reasonable chance to interact with you when he doesn't have to run the risk of feeling stupid if you reject him. Guys are as scared of being rejected as anyone else. Just try to start a casual conversation outside class ... after all, he did the opener by talking to you IN class. It's kind of your move now.
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