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female
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30-35,
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writes:Okay, I have this guy friend. He's smart, funny, cute, unbelievably witty, and I'm crazy about him. Problem: I've made it plainly clear I like him in telling him twice, but he always pulls the "just friends" card. He started playing hot and cold days before our last dance and told me the "just friends" again. Yet he flirts with me and gets upset when I pay another guy more attention than him. I still like him, but I can't tell if he wants more. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): He's messing you around. Keep out of it and find a guy who won't one minute flirt a lot with you and get jealous whilst you are with another guy and the next minute say that he thinks of you as just a mate. Move on from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Why do you want the relationship to get serious? You are too young for sex!! Keep it cool and be friends and enjoy been a teenager instead of trying to get into this heavy stuff too soon. I can understand just what you are saying but i think he has a lot of respect for you and is going by the rule book. You have to be happy with that and enjoy every minute. Be young and free and enjoy life!!
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): I don’t agree that you’re too young to have a boyfriend as long as its simply that and doesn’t become sexual. But if you like this guy, ask him these questions yourself. And if he says he likes you but he just wants to be friends you need to respect that. Boys are different from girls… they like to mess about with their friends playing football… they mature a lot slower than girls. A relationship probably scares him… just tell him that if he just wants to be friends then to stop throwing a paddy when you speak to other guys.
Take Care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Okay. You are not yet 15 and you want more from your friend. I don't know his age, but it sounds as though he perhaps realizes that to be more than "just friends" is not appropriate for you at so very young an age.
He likes you, yes, but doesn't want to get more involved.
You ask what you should do. You should just enjoy him as a platonic friend, and let it go at that.
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