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writes:Hey its been a while but I need your help again please Agony aunts. About a year ago I got pregnant and didn't know what to do as I already had 2 small children, I decided to carry on with the pregnancy but at 12 weeks I miscarried having to actually give birth (agony). I decided I wanted another one so after a couple of months i fell pregnant again this time I was carrying twins the only way I found that out was when I lost the first one after that they did a scan on me and found out that the remaining baby was going to be severly disabled if I continued the pregnancy and might also have put my life at risk for the sake of my kids, I aborted the baby now both me and my husband are trapped in deep depression which is spiralling out of control more and more day by day. I've tried everything tablets, counseling, mental hospital, rehab I don't know what to do pls help!!! yours faithfully xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): On may 28 2006 I lost my son to a rare genetic disorder and a heart defect disorder, I had to go into labour (10 hours) I have never been through so much pain in my whole life, I thought my heart was breaking… I just kept asking why me, why my baby?
I am just starting to come to terms with the fact that my son died inside me. I now sometimes sit and think, if he did live he would have been severally disabled… what kind of life would he have had, he wouldn’t have been able to play out like other children… and because of his heart defect he would have been in and out of hospital all his life.
You made the right choice my love… it’s so hard I know but you have two beautiful children, concentrate on them. The children now, who are in the care of Angels, keep them in your prayers every night, that’s what I do with Bailey. I’m thinking of trying for baby again so that goes to prove that it does get easier.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 All I can tell you is this, you made the correct choice. You already had two children to raise and the risk of losing their mother was too great. If you think you are depressed now, imagine the situation if you had also died. You made a difficult choice and what I consider to be the proper one. Things happen for a reason. Don't fight yourself over this and continue to seek professional help.
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