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36-40,
*achakaRoni
writes:Ive been seeing this guy for over a year and things recently have got very comfy with us, which is great. I love it a lot but, it was always a casual thing and it hasnt became official. I know he enjoys my company, as I do his and we always have a laugh together and we dont always have sex now like we used to. But seen as we arent official, I dont know how to deal with or even tell him that I love him. What do you think I shud do? Please help, because Im afraid if I tell him I cud scare him away. Reply to this Question
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reader, thor +, writes (31 March 2007):
 i think after a year he musy know you love him by now, maybe he is waiting for you to say it. i thought he would have said it by now, most guys do :). the thing with not having as much sex is maybe due to burning out. too much in the beginning. you will eventualy get it back.
good luck
thor
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Beeing friends with sex thrown in always complicates things. He's having his cake and eating it with you so why would he want the responsibility of a relationship too? If you choose to stay friends then NO SEX! Maybe that way he'll miss you more and realise he feels more for you than just a friend.
Tell him you really like him and would love to start dating. If he doesn't seem keen then you know your answer but DON'T continue to sleep with him or YOU are the one that will end up empty and hurt.
Eve
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