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writes:Right, im 15 and i THINK im in love with my friend and he tells me he loves me back (seems fine, whats the problem you may think) well there is a trio of us best friends, me the guy im in love with which i will refere to as guy 1 and our other friend who i will refere to as guy 2. well guy 2 has told guy 1 he is in love with him, but we cant tell gu two that me and guy 1 are infact in love, so thats why we cant date and things...thats ok but i have recently started to fall for my friend (guy 3) and he is falling for me i think, he leaves me sweet messages for when i get home from school and always makes me smile and laugh when im down. i really love guy 1 but when im not with him i cant help but think about guy 3. and what do i do about my best friend guy 2 when im lying to him about loving the guy he does? help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Well if you really like both guys and you want to date one of then see which one is the nicest and the most mature because i would not like to date someone who is not mature.
You should tell guy 2 that you "Love" the guy that he loves and come clean with it all trust me i was lying to my friend and now we don't evan talk but i hang out with different people but yeah it took me a long time to find other friends because she was my only friend. So yeah tell guy 2 that you love guy 1 and yeah go for the one who is more mature and respects you the most. Or if you dont like Mature people go for the other dude.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (30 March 2007):
 In true reality, you dont really love either of them, or the choice wouldnt be this hard. If you sincerely Loved guy 1, guy 3 wouldnt enter your head. Guy 2 is a complication as you see him as a friend and dont want to hurt him.
Maybe take a backseat and see what happens. Its great to be the centre of attention, having a laugh and so on, but you dont know what these guys true intentions are towards you.
Have some fun, you dont have to get all serious just yet, see how it goes, Next week you might decide that guy 2 is the best bet, so dont rush it... take your time and see how wins out in time it will become clear, your not ready to make the choice yet.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Go for guy 3and keep the others as friends - seems like the least complicated option!
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