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writes:Dear Cupid, what does an orgazam feels like? I am very pleased with the sex with my boyfriend and I enjoy it so much, and sometimes I feel that I am coming or that I am very close...but how will I KNOW that this is an orgazam? Is it just a great pleasure or some kind of explosive feeling? Do you know what I mean? My bf is very worried that he cannot satisfy me, but this is not true! I feel really great having sex with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): dear 22 - 25 year old, trust me "you" will "know" when you've had one, the very fact that you have to ask if you have had one suggests that you havent yet.
obviously i cant exsplain the feeling to you, or let you know what to exspect. only tell you that if your unsure then you havent yet had one!
if you cant have one with your BF then try yourself! or intrudce a sex toy with your man if you preffer
how will you know when youve have "had one"
use this sort of gross example,
when you fart - (trust me i am going somewhere with this!)
sometimes you are not sure if you have had a follow through or not, and you have to check - but when you do fart and follow through you always "know" without a doubt that you have just craped yourself - no checking needed!
well it's like that, but nice!
oh and there are diffrent levels or cumming, but if you feel like your missing out on something then it just means you have yet to exsperiance a "full" one if you like. like when you have a sneeze building and instead you yawn or something - that can be anoying!
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): I'm sure that every one of us has been in your position of not knowing whether they have had an orgasm...in a way it's annoying that we're not made like men and blatently ejaculate when we are cumming so that we would know! All I can say is that you will know when you have had one. I have heard that it is different for everyone, but for me it is an amazing feeling - my whole body gets hot and ridgid - just before I cum I get a sudden rush of blood to the head. But the way that you will definitely know if you are having an orgasm is if you feel your vagina contracting several times uncontrollably.The best advice I can give is to let yourself go - don't worry about what your bf is doing, just concentrate on yourself and what you are feeling and it will happen.Good luck.
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reader, pebblesxx  +, writes (3 April 2007):
lol...good question, i always thought i never had one before...always expecting an explosion of sorts, but re3cently found out im a squirter,(where you ejaculate when u cum) now i get a slignt tingling feeling downstairs but thats it then feel like i wanna wee. aparantly thats an orgasm...maye i was expecting so much more firewoks body tremblings etc..but its not that big. alll woman experaience diffrent things, some go warm all over, some tigle soem even faint. u need to be relaxed, close you eyes and feel nothing think of nothing, go with the flow and expore your partener and they you, itll cum...so to speak...lol, but dont expect too much n u wont be let down like me!!! lol
hth
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reader, pebblesxx +, writes (3 April 2007):
lol...good question, i always thought i never had one before...always expecting an explosion of sorts, but re3cently found out im a squirter,(where you ejaculate when u cum) now i get a slignt tingling feeling downstairs but thats it then feel like i wanna wee. aparantly thats an orgasm...maye i was expecting so much more firewoks body tremblings etc..but its not that big. alll woman experaience diffrent things, some go warm all over, some tigle soem even faint. u need to be relaxed, close you eyes and feel nothing think of nothing, go with the flow and expore your partener and they you, itll cum...so to speak...lol, but dont expect too much n u wont be let down like me!!! lol
hth
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Remember making love is a part of building a relationship. You need time and observation to enjoy it more and more.
I agree with annoymous that if you don't know, then you probably haven't experience it yet. Don't worry, you need time to learn about your own body as your bf learn how to make you enjoy sex.
I know with my bf, he feels like it's his job to make me come. Why that is, I don't know. He's a really manly man and believes a man should provide it all during love making. Tell him you are learning about yourself too. Ask him to try different things and if you enjoy something, SHOW him by your emotion. I find it hard to enjoy sex when you're afraid to be heard, being stress, etc. As you free yourself, hopefully you will be able to experience it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): If you have to ask, you’ve never had one. You know when you’ve had an orgasm even the first ever one… it’s a feeling that’s indescribable… but there are ways to help get an orgasm.
You won’t get an orgasm if you don’t move with you partner during sex… before sexual intercourse ask your boyfriend to rub your clitoris with his fingers this will hep pyou have an orgasm during sex as well.
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