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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): i talked to my girl in the she did not like. How will i go back to her. and what will i say?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 That depends who broke her heart. If it is you, then the best and kindest thing you can do for her is to stay away. This will allow her to move on quicker without the constant reminder of why her heart hurts.
If you are a caring friend, just let her know you are there for her when she needs it.
Go out with her socializing and keep her busy with hobby so that her mind does not wonder back to the pain.
Remember that if the guy did not love her back then it is his loss and lucky is the guy who will love her back one day she feels able to love again.
Only time helps the healing process, unfortunately we all have to go through it at one time or another. Nobody can actually take the pain away. It is an ordeal we need to go through ourselves and find the inner strengh to get out of it.
Some take longer than others. Having caring friends like you helps the process faster as the mind is kept busy and glipse of hope is found by the person hurting. By giving them something to live for.
Best thing in the world to feel ALIVE AND ENJOY THE FEELING, to remember how fun laughing is.
I find that laughing is the best therapy ever, one of the very few perks in life that we do not have to pay taxes for.
Hope everything gets sorted out and your friend find happiness soon
Take care
Angel of Love
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 I don't know if you will agree with me (as every girl is different), I find it very comforting when someone is holding me in their arm and not say a thing. The fact that I know he's not worth it, or there's always someone out there that's better, etc... everyone know that. Respond to her only when she asks you a question. oh yeah, and never ask her questions like: so what are you going to do now?
Knowing you'll always be there when she needs you is what every girl's dream friend.
Hope that helps.
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reader, Patient1  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Just be there for her. Let her cry on your shoulder if she wants. Assure her that the person who broke her heart is not worth her pain and sorrow. Make her feel important. Offer her little trinkets of happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Go out places with your mates and have fun. Forget the person that broke your heart and move on.
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reader, endlesssong +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Tell her the person she broke up with isn't worth her tears and that she's better than that. Give her physical contact if she looks down and hug her if she cries. If she dosn't feel like she's worth anything or feels like she'll never love again, tell her otherwise. Do something nice for her that you might not otherwise do. When me and a friend have had a tough time its a tradition to treat the one who's down to ice cream. Its not a lot, but something that makes us happy.
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