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writes: Dear Cupid, What are your dating deal breakers?Each question goes like this: Would keep dating someone that ___ ___ ____ _____? Is that enough or does their have to be more issues? Assume that this person here your very attracted too in many ways, still.........Would keep dating someone that showed you little affection? Is that enough or does their have to be more issues? (even though that person liked you)Would keep dating someone that was selfish and or inconsiderate? Is that enough or does their have to be more issues?Would keep dating someone that was mostly silent? Is that enough or does their have to be more?Would keep dating someone that was kind of like frozen in bed? Is that enough or does their have to be more?Would keep dating someone that said things or acted a tiny bit wierd at times? Is that enough or does their have to be more?Would keep dating someone that harbors some anger? Is that enough or does their have to be more? Would keep dating someone that tried to be slighly dominant or critical with you? Is that enough or does their have to be more? Would keep giving to someone that did not thank you? Is that enough or would their have to be more? (gifts)Would keep giving to someone that did not ever laugh and hardly ever smiled? Is that enough or would their have to be more?Would keep giving to someone that did not greet you with a hug? Is that enough or would their have to be more?Would keep dating a woman that hit you by surprize? even if maybe done playfully? Is that enough or does their have to be more? ( there was no explaination )Would keep dating someone that could only express their negativeity? Is that enough or does their have to be more issues? Would keep dating someone that once got pissed at you for think of them? Is that enough or does their have to be more? (she wanted me to spend a lot of money on flowers instead of an email basically saying I'm thinking of you)Would keep dating someone that had ALL of these issues ? And if so how long could you deal with this person? How many of these issues could you put up with?, until you say thats it its over? Do you think this gal / person has any right to decide hate you because you dumped her? even if it broke her heart?If you where later on very much insulted by her.Would you want to get back at this person (only verbally) Thanks, I.M. Fearless or very Patient(or U think ... so dumb once) BTW - I can only deal with about two of these.http://www.dearcupid.org/ask
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (30 March 2007):
OK, I'd bail if...
The person showed me no affection
The person was "frozen in bed" (I assume that means sex)
I would NOT bail if she was "a tiny bit weird" ... I'm a tiny bit weird myself!
I would also bail if I thought she was not doing her best to communicate with me.
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