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writes:I've been planning to move in with my boyfriend for months, and his apartment mate was fine with it at first, but he seems to be making up excuses for why its a bad idea and being extremly difficult. His main complaint is that I don't let him act like king of the castle because he is not the only one paying the rent and the place was found with the intention of me moving in. My boyfriend keeps crossing his fingers, hoping it all works out, but I'm afraid if he says no my boyfriend will let him get his way, like aways. I am afraid he'll just be like "Nothing I can do about it" when he has a say too and it was something he had agreed to months ago. I think that by getting on this power trip his roommate is basically making him choose between me and him, but my boyfriend thinks I'm overreacting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): Original Poster: Just wanted to update. We are having a sit down this week and I talked to my boy and he plans to stay strong because he wouldn't have moved in if he knew his friend would pull this. It's esspecially messy right now because we got an unheard of deal so he really can't afford to move anywhere else, so until he gets a better job, hes stuck.
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reader, thor  +, writes (31 March 2007):
 as him if he would rent a room for just the two of you. dump his mate he isnt your lover your bf is. he should stand up for you if not get out of it.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (30 March 2007):
 I assume you're going from a two-way split of rent to a three way split?
Your boyfriend sounds like he needs a backbone transplant, dear lady. Your problem isn't should you or shouldn't you move in with these guys. Your problem is, can you count on this man to stand up for you the way a real partner should in the future. If he is not able to either get his roommate to come around to abide by the original agreement or have the guts to strike out on his own and get a place with you by himself, I'd say he's probably not worth your time as a prospective future mate. That's supposed to be spelled M-A-T-E, not M-A-T. Understand? You don't need a guy who can't or won't take your side.
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