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writes:Okay well there's this kid _ _ _ _. and he asked me out on his birthday after me and my best friend started talking to him. We were talking to him for -10 days when he started to "like" me. We knew he liked me but he never said it. Then he asked me out on Sept 21 also his birthday and then dumped me the same day. The next day I came home to see many ims at my computer from him saying how sorry he was and how much he regretted hurting me and how he felt so bad that he literally made himself sick, he said that he liked me but not enough to love me yet. Then he guaranteed that we would go out with him. Ever since then I liked him. He has made me cry and made me love him even more with his personality and looks and I don't know what to do? I pretend to not want anything to do with him in that way. The only person that knows I like him is my best friend and his best friend but we are good friends and he wants to keep trust. One night we were at my house and his best friend likes my best friend and she thinks the guy I like likes me but I dont know and I keep denying it because I don't want to get my hopes up. That night at my house his best friend and my best friend were off somewhere flirting in my house and me and the kid I like were alone in a room. I honestly think he is afraid to make out but he isn't afraid to go to second base. That night we went to second base wihtout making out and just kissed each other on the cheek and stuff. After that he instant messages me and is a complete _ _ _ hole and tells me it was a mistake. He gets jealous when I am with other guys but the truth is I only want to be with him. It has been 7 months and I really want to tell him soon. I have been holding it in for so long now. Please help me find a way to tell him without making it uncomfortable and not saying I'm obsessed!
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reader, simonlmc  +, writes (18 March 2007):
I think he does like you and respects you a lot thats why he all ways apologises because he feels that he should only kiss you if you and him are together. Next time you and him are together alone ask him if he has any feelings towards you, he seems like he has if he tells you no and backs of then you no he doesnt but if he is quiet and doesnt say anything u no he does like you but is nervous im usly like this because i never no if the other likes me or what they will say so im very scared, it sounds like 2 me he's the same
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