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writes:My boyfriend came home at 5 oclock in the morning. I found a girl's phone number in his pocket. Do you think he's been cheating on me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): You shouldn't jump to conclusions, confrunt him and ask him why he did have a girls phone number in his pocket. But I would say he might be cheating on you but there's a possibilty hes not.
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reader, agony aunt j  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Ok well first are you sure its actually a girls number? and if you are, this doesn't necessarily mean he's been cheating. But i can understand where you're coming from of course. If he had nothing to hide then he shouldn't be hiding it from you, but then again he may of just put it in his pocket when he got it so he might not have been hiding it on purpose. but the only way you're going to find anything out is by asking these things yourself. why was he hiding it and why was he home so late? is he always home late? you should confront him about it, and although you may be suspicious try to trust him. Why were you looking in his pockets in the first place? Give him a chance but if something weird happens again then something could be going on. Some guys just take the numbers off girls for the fun of it anyway, not because they intend on ringing them. but like i said, confront him.
and if you find he is cheating, he's not worth the worry anyway.
let me know how things go!
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reader, 7up +, writes (18 March 2007):
 if i were you i would ask him calmly as you do deserve to know why he has another girls phone number, as there might be an innocent explanation. if he asks why you were going through his pockets you could say you were doing laundry as we all know pockets need to be emptied! You should be able to tell by his reaction if he's telling the truth or not, ie if he looks uncomfortable, avoidence, blushing stuttereing ect... i hope this helps hunni, hugs xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): thats kind of iffy. does he come home late every night or a lot. do you still have sex? does he get pissed off at you all the time. if so then yes. if not well. work on you issuses
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reader, eddie  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Well, he's got a girls phone number. It doesn't mena he's cheated but if it's innocent, it shouldn't be hidden form you either. What is wrong with coming home at 5 in the morning? I'll bet you were angry even before he got home.
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Let`s not jump to conclusions here! Ok, so he`s got a phone number in his pocket. How do you know it`s a girl`s, does it say her name? You`ll only find out what`s going on (if anything) if you ask him. But then you`ll have to explain what you were doing looking in his pockets....
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Does he make a habit of coming in at this time and if so where does he say he's been? Did you ask him where he was on this occasion? Without more information it's really hard to tell but it certainly sounds ominous. Are you having problems with him just lately? Is he being secretive, distant and vague with you?
Eve
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