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*MJ83
writes:I'm a university student and I really like one of my tutors. He was nice to me when in first year and his classes were a laugh. Then in second year, he was really nasty to me slating my work in class and not replying when I emailed him questions to do with parts of the module that I didn't understand. I then took a gap year and every time I saw him he'd insist on hugging me, has offered me lifts, has a laugh with me and smiles at me a lot. My mate reckons he's got a soft spot for me... Help!!! I'm so confused!!
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reader, DMJ83 +, writes (19 March 2007):
DMJ83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question this doesn't really answer the question.. i mean, affection is something you have for your old granny or your pet dog - what's the difference between a crush and affection??.. all I really want to know is whether or not he's attracted to me??.. i don't want to say something to him and have got it wrong!!
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reader, nologo  +, writes (17 March 2007):
 This sounds like you got a crush on your tutor.He was nice to you at first, because he didn't know about it.When your attitude to him became more evident, he changed.After you took a gap year (as time passed) crush transformed into affection.Looks like this affection is mutual, though I can't tell you if it's gonna be long lasting.
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