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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years now.And our relationship is absolutly amazing except for one thing, we hardly ever have sex. If I'm lucky its 2-3 a week. I know it's been a while and i could kink the sex life a little but he doesnt seem to be interested into any of the crazy sex things. He is the type of guy that likes it in his bed no where else. What can I do? I am happy with us but not with our sex life? I feel like it's bringing me futher apart from him.
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reader, tkay1032  +, writes (17 March 2007):
 You have sex 2 to 3 times a week?? That isn't enough?? I only get it once or twice a week and I'm ok. I would be ever so happy with what you are getting lol Now on the seriuos side.
Now If it isn't enough go get some toys etc. If you want to kink it up a bit talk to him about it. Maybe he feels the same and you just don't know it. Don't throw a great thing away over sex issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2007): Make a comprimise. Firstly decide how many times a week you both plan to do it. He wants it 2-3 times a week (as you said) but how about you? Choose how many times you want it and then plan to have it the number in the middle of those choices unless one of you agrees to change it to the other person's choice. And as for where you do it why don't you take it in turns. He wants it in a bed whilst you seem to find that more boring. Have one time where you want to do it and the next time in bed and so on.
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