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writes:Am I normal?I'm a virgin and I'm not rushing into sex with my boyfriend any time soon but we have taken it for hand jobs and fingering and when he fingers me he only does it for a little while and I orgasm straight away, is it normal to orgasm in such a short time? Sometimes he's only playing with my clit and not even fingering or just rubbing the top but I orgasm too quickly. Do boys like that?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 Marry me.
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reader, Dei-Sei-Dai  +, writes (24 March 2011):
Hahahaha Yeahhh!! We Love that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): You are a very lucky girl. There's nothing I love more that knowing I can make a girl orgasm in only a few seconds. It means you can do it anywhere - whenever either of you fancies it - standing in a queue, on a train, while someone else is hanging up your coat for you. Keep practicing!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): My girlfriend has this issue and was worried about it, despite me telling her all of the above. Thanks for helping me reassure her that it's normal and nothing to worry about!
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reader, rubberduck +, writes (21 March 2007):
all guys are different, but orgasming quickly is likely to be more of a turn on. for guys everythings a competition and the more he gives you the better hel feel about himself. the chances are hes thinking hes just an utter stud if he gets you goin like that. its not a bad thing atall, to soon is better than to late or not atall.
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reader, Farris +, writes (18 March 2007):
 I agree with the comments below, but would like to add this:
How long have you been sexually active? I think that when you first start exploring your body, you're not so used to the sensations, and they can overpower you very quickly, thus you orgasm faster. The more times that you're intimate with someone (or even just on your own), the more you will get used to the feelings, and then you'll begin to gain more control over it, if you so wish to prolong the feeling.
At the end of the day, there's really nothing wrong with you, and believe me... Guys feel a HELL of a lot better about a girl that orgasms faster, than one who takes a REALLY long time.
Best wishes.
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Men will like the fact they can satisfy you and not get "nacked" before they orgasm.
It is a turn on for men to make you reach clitoral orgasm without penetration.
As you orgasm quickly it will be good for you because you can feel ectacsy even if you partner has premature ejaculation or erection disfunction problems.
It is more normal than you think and something to be happy about.
If you want to delay your orgasm, slow down and change position. This can intensify the feeling and leave you even more satisfied.
Angel of Love
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): Hey you are one lucky girl, some of us would give our right arm to get an orgasm as quick as you. There is nothing wrong with you. I must admit though that when my hubby puts his fingers to my clit and rubs it I get the Orgasm rush but it stops even though I would like to come several times over, Keep it up girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2007): Hey, dont panic you're normal, do you realise how lucky you are? many women dont have orgasms during foreplay and do with sex and visa-versa. some cant orgasm at all. I am blessed with "multiple orgasm syndrome" (well thats what i call it!) the guys i have been with think im faking then when they realise im not they get more turned on by it!welcome to the club girl!!
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