A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been married for nearly 2 years now and my husband and I are having a lot of problems.He keeps saying that I should behave like a wife and when I ask him what I am doing wrong he doesn't tell me and there are so many other issues too whereby he makes me feel as though everything is my fault. I'm confused of whether I should carry on with him or do I ask for a divorce??????
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (17 March 2007):
 It is mean't to say a shove in the right direction not (shoe) sorry
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female
reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (17 March 2007):
Hi hun,
You need to tell him that you love him so so much and you married him for better or worse etc etc... and that you are really upset because you really don't know how to fix this problem as he will not communicate with you, if you knew the problem you would try to resolve it... You have only been married for two years and the receipe for a good healthy marriage is trust and good communication. Of course you are confused babe your being told that you should behave like a wife and he is not telling you what is bugging him, your not a mind reader none of us are tell him if he was a husband he would be able to sit and talk to you the way you deserve to be.... Tell him if he can not talk to you then you really feel that this will affect your marriage as you were planning for your marriage to last for ever not end after such a short time together...
I do hope he communicates with you babe and I wish you all the very best
Donna xx
PS: Us women are great communicaters men sometimes need a shoe in the right direction be patient let him know you love him and would do anything to please him
Let me know how you get on x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 March 2007):
 I need some more information from you, how does he WANT you to behave? What are some of the other issues? Has he always been this way or has this only begun recently? Are you on any medication at all? Do you have any of a family?
Eve
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