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*uth2203
writes:i never used to go out becuase me and my boyf had trust issues so i never used to go but any way we split up and im now a free single 16yr old girl but now the problem is i started hanging with my one ofmy best firneds and she knows some well dodge people who do drugs alchol e's the lot so i did to , i drink but i dont do drugs and they would never force me to do them i dont feel pressured either and becuase its the easter holidays ivee been going out alot more , a while back one of my friends went there and her mom found out and her mum and her are best friends so talking about it and now my mums a bit worried about me going out ANY WHERE ive never been late back i always tell her where i am and im nver drunk when i get back if any one out there with a daughter the same age let me know what you think i have gone through alot of problems recently my grandmother died and i split with my boyfriend i know my exams are soon so hence why im out in the holidays i really want to go tonight but she prbs let me im not gonna let drugs ruin my life im a teenager i jsut want to explore!!
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reader, vero05  +, writes (6 April 2007):
well the best way(teenager tested parent approved) is just to be good at school, hang out with the right people (not the ones that do drugs), and shell trust you. DO NOT HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE THAT DO DRUGS
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): Dear Ruth. You are giving your own answers to why your mum is worried about you "going out". Whether you are doing drugs with the crowd or not, alcohol is bad enough. You say you will never do drugs, and you don't "get drunk". But, hon, it is the wrong atmosphere for you. At your age, you are placing yourself in a very vulnerable position. Surely you have friends who "go out" to different places that do not involve these things. If not, you should make some. You are right about one thing,...you should concentrate on completing your schooling. It is more important than you can see right now. And you have a very beautiful name. It was my Granny's name. Luvs, Tom
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reader, Tinalishus +, writes (6 April 2007):
 Hey,I'm 16 too...your mums just looking out for you, she wants whats best and TRUST me hanging out with those people is not whats best for you!Think of it this way; if it was your daughter would you want her hanging out with those types of people? I know i wouldnt.As for the boyfriend break up i know how you feel, i just split with my boyfriend because he got accused of rape and wouldnt tell me the truth.Explain to your mum you know shes worried but ask her to trust your judgement, This doesnt mean you will take advantage but you will do whats right xHope this helped xGood luck x
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