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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my bf recently admitted that he has been physical with a man which didn't shock me because i knew he was bi curious. we discussed as to whether he wants to be with me and me alone as a woman or whether he wants to be with a man. he chose me as we both feel that his interest in men is purely sexual. im happy he has decided to stay with me and that he says he's happy and content with what we have but i can't shake the feeling that he only said it to make me happy. is this a normal feeling or not? how can i get over this feeling and the idea of him being with a man and how can we possible help his curiosities other than him actually going to a man?? Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 April 2007):
 I can understand why you're feeling a bit insecure. I think you're feeling exactly the same as you would have if he had seen another woman. The truth of the matter is though, he chose you. Therefore he has chosen to reject the side of his personality that likes men and concentrate on a relationship with you. I know it's hard but the fact is that if anything ruins this relationship, it's likely to be your own insecurities so try your best to quash them asap.
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