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writes:HI i have been havin sex with my girlfriend for the last 5 months and I lost my virginty to her, she does moan and groan alot while we are at it but how do i no if she is having an orgasm or if she has cum?any replies would be grateful thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Ask her as you are making love to her. Have you got yours yet baby? Have I pleased you yet? Just make sure she knows that you are trying to please her for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all very much for the advice, it is greatly appreciated.
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reader, angel0101 +, writes (6 April 2007):
try talking to your girlfriend and discussing sex and what it is like for her.ask her if what oyu are doing pleases her and if there is anything else that she likes in that depsartment. then gently ask her if you have ever mad her orgasm and come or eithre or, tell her your not bothered about the answer and if it is no then how can you help, also discuss what you would like. women do moan and groan when having sex because it is pleasurable for them but we don;t always need to orgasm or come to have enjoyed it. the only way you will ever know is if you sit and have a discussion, if you have a good relationship then this shouldn't be a problem.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (6 April 2007):
sex is all about intimacy, the quickest way to get there is communication.dont just dive in, do your thing and expect mirracles. the best way ive found is to spend a night just exploring and teasing each others bodies, find out what really flicks switches. you might even be surprised by wat she finds out about you too.most women will soon tell you if your not doing it right anyway.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (6 April 2007):
 The only way you can find out whether she has had an orgasm is when her virginal walls goes into spasm and she secreets fluid on your penis whilst you are still inside her. Its a similar principal as when a guy ejaculates. Hope this has put your mind at rest for you.
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