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Is this what I should be doing, sex-wise?

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Question - (6 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2007)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i need help!!!!!!!!! i am 15 and my gf is 15 and i have no idea what i am going to do she has asked me to be her first and i was like oh thank you baby but now im freaked out so i found this site why because i know nothing i have seen some porno but i have no idea what i am doing ur site has helped a bit i have my own lil set rutean basicly i tell her just follow wot im doing giv her a intense 10 minute back massage and kiss her neek (i have kissed but never hooked up omg wt am i goin 2 do) then i spin her around and poke her -(dnt worry already have done dat wif her b4) ok and dats my foreplay then im lost???? using porn i am guessing that i push her on the bed gently take off her shirt - but then what if i cant take her bra of from behind ??????? then i pull dwn her pantz pt on protection and then just go in deep and then out but not fully out????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007):

Hun you shouldn't use porno as your base line I mean, not everyone sleeps with the plumber or the milkman!

What you need to do is talk to your girlfriend and ask her what she thinks! Explore both your bodys together and please don't just throw her on the bed! she'll probably just dump you!

good luck and relax! but talk to her!

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2007):

i totally agree with the answer below, im not going to tell you dont do it because its your life.

but you do seem very nervous and uncomfortable with the idea of sex. id seriously consider getting to know each other as people and as a couple befor you dive in.

sex is a special thing between two people who mean a lot to each other (or it should be), your going to be sharing ur body with someone, you dont want it to be a 5 minute tumble do you?.

if you do decide to still go ahead, DONT USE PORNO AS A GUIDE, she'll dump you in seconds lol

email me if you need more help

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A female reader, ruth2203 United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2007):

you want me to be honest! You watch to much porn thats not how it happens in the real world!! treat her with some respect and it will come natrual

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007):

No disrespect but should you be doing this at such a young age? Not from an experience point of view, and not because you havent a clue what to do, but you seem to be going to do something that you dont seem comfortable with.

You sound so nervous, and thats probably because you are so young and not ready to do this. Besides there is the underage laws to consider.

Perhaps you should wait a while until you are ready, and trust me it will just come naturally! Your body will dictate what you should do!

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