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I used to masturbate to climax, now I cant and feel empty, am I not ready for sex ?

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Question - (6 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi ive just turned 19. i strated to masturbate when i was 14 everyhthing was great, got my orgasm and reached my climax and went all the way, you know to the end when u feel that youve released all the tension. i dont feel that any more, i get excited but dont reach my climax and at the edn i feel empty, masturbating now is a put of for me..am i still sexually ready? i havent had sex. please help worried here

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A female reader, RXX United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2007):

RXX agony auntthis feeling really doesnt have anything to do with if your ready to have sex, being ready for sex is about being mentally capable to cope with such an initmate connection.

when masturbating your not getting a connection and now your body is use to the same routine of being on your own.

the emptiness that you feel is prob due to your not having that initmate connection with another person - but this does not mean you should rush yourself into having sex when your not ready because that would make you feel worse.

my suggestion is that maybe you mix it up a little, try it in different positions or use a sex toy.

All the best X X

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A male reader, Ziggystardust United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2007):

Enjoy your youth and dont worry about it...............

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